From 6th grade through high school, it was a similar experience. (We had moved for various reasons, and came from a blue-collar background to a white-collar neighborhood.) I did not play sports, but I had friends who did. The Lowe brothers both played golf, and they helped me out a few times. Instead of being tormented on the bus, they would give me a ride home.
Yes, it is cool to be an outlier because, at the end of the day, it is what makes us unique and memorable. The older we get, the more we know who the people who show up, no matter what they have going on in their lives, are. Even today, someone I was talking to about a friend who, from time to time, will ask for business advice to the point that it can be draining, said to me, “Neil, he respects you.”
There is this saying, “Your vibe is your tribe.” It takes time to find that tribe.
Another thought-provoking, beautifully written parable. I'm not sure what column of yours starting me following you, but I'm glad I did. Thanks for all you've done this year.
This is a beautiful example of clique culture vs genuine friendship. Clique members only show up when everyone else is doing it. Friends show up for ✨you✨ bc they care about you as a person.
I’m glad you had someone in your corner back then, and love how that experience translated to how you run a company. Thanks for sharing!
From 6th grade through high school, it was a similar experience. (We had moved for various reasons, and came from a blue-collar background to a white-collar neighborhood.) I did not play sports, but I had friends who did. The Lowe brothers both played golf, and they helped me out a few times. Instead of being tormented on the bus, they would give me a ride home.
Yes, it is cool to be an outlier because, at the end of the day, it is what makes us unique and memorable. The older we get, the more we know who the people who show up, no matter what they have going on in their lives, are. Even today, someone I was talking to about a friend who, from time to time, will ask for business advice to the point that it can be draining, said to me, “Neil, he respects you.”
There is this saying, “Your vibe is your tribe.” It takes time to find that tribe.
Your vibe is your tribe. i love that!
Another thought-provoking, beautifully written parable. I'm not sure what column of yours starting me following you, but I'm glad I did. Thanks for all you've done this year.
Thank YOU 🙏
This is a beautiful example of clique culture vs genuine friendship. Clique members only show up when everyone else is doing it. Friends show up for ✨you✨ bc they care about you as a person.
I’m glad you had someone in your corner back then, and love how that experience translated to how you run a company. Thanks for sharing!
You are very welcome. Thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment.
Oh my gosh … you went about life with grace. I loved every friend that came by our home. Grateful you had someone in your corner. Love you
Grateful i did (and do) too.